What kind of men see prostitutes

Melissa Farley, clinical psychologist and a co-author of the study, said she wants legislators to understand the Johns' motives to find a way to crack down on prostitution.

For instance, Farley also asked what would deter the men from visiting a prostitute. Only 47 percent of men said a requirement to attend educational services about prostitution would deter them.

Farley said she aims to stamp out prostitution in addition to sex trafficking because of the stories she's heard in the 12 years she spent researching prostitution.

That is harmful to them and they would do anything else if they had the choice. But Ed Laumann, professor of sociology at the University of Chicago, points out that the research in the London study was far from definitive -- the sample of men was small and the responding men were skewed to those who read the newspaper or want to respond to an ad looking for Johns.

Laumann also says that there may never be a universal answer to the question of why men buy prostitutes because the "oldest profession" changes so often depending on time and culture. For instance, large surveys have showed prostitution in the United States dropped significantly over the last century, while today 1 in 4 men report visiting a prostitute in some parts of southeastern China, according to Laumann.

In that survey, which questioned people ages , about 10 percent of older men reported that their first sexual experience was with a prostitute. The reason, Laumann reasoned, is that the sexual revolution made premarital sex much more accessible.

Now young men go to girlfriends for sex and vice versa instead of some young, unmarried people choosing to pay for sex at a local brothel. And getting men excited about bedroom action often has little to do with skimpy outfits out in public.

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